Relational Psychotherapy 

for Individuals & Couples

Ontario & British Columbia • Virtual & In-person

Trauma-informed and
Compassion-focused

Relational psychotherapy is a gentle approach that strengthens and transforms a person’s sense of self, and enhances their confidence and well-being.

Hi! I’m Alexia.
I also go by Lex.

Thank you for visiting my site - I’m glad you’re here. I’m a registered psychotherapist based in Vancouver and practicing across BC and Ontario. I also have an MA in Sociology and Equity Studies in Education. I work virtually and in-person with individuals, couples, and families.

My two decades working in the non-profit sector as a counsellor and educator, coupled with my own experience as a client led me to become a therapist. I had some unhelpful experiences with therapy, and then I had a transformative one. I learned how to heal from old beliefs, and I started speaking to myself in a kinder voice. I discovered how to bring unconscious things (oh hello shame!) to light, and rewire my nervous system.  

Being present as a therapist requires resourcing myself and I do that by swimming, journalling, and thrifting. I love biking around East Van, and taking photos of all the murals. I feel most at home when I am taking deep breaths near trees and water.

I move through the world as a white, queer, cisgender, able-bodied, person. I’m also a partner, bonus parent, and dog guardian.

Offerings

  • Individual Therapy

    The simple act of noticing and naming a feeling with an empathetic person can bring insight and clarity. As you begin to heal you may start connecting to yourself and others with greater intimacy, presence and acceptance. 

  • Couples + Family Therapy

    I help people understand their relationships in deeper ways and offer tools for building intimacy and a more secure bond. All types of couples are welcome, and I also work with families, and various other intimate relationships.

  • Breath Awareness

    Sometimes we feel stuck even when we have insight, so we need to shift out of our heads and focus on the nervous system. I support you to become conscious of your nervous system states and how shifting your breathing patterns can support your healing.

Areas of Focus

Virtual & In-Person Therapy

I offer both virtual therapy and in-person sessions. In-person sessions are available at 202-1011 Commercial Drive in East Vancouver.

Discovery Session

Feelings of warmth and connection are essential in the therapeutic relationship. I offer a complimentary 20-minute session to see if we would be a good fit.